When someone projects huge expectations onto you but doesn’t give any encouragement to you, it can be very discouraging. It’s as if you should be able to achieve anything and everything with zero help. Just on your own. But every successful person had someone who supported them. And if they had very few or none, they atleast distanced themselves from those people who would only put expectations on them. Expectations doesn’t get you very far. As a standard we already have so many expectations being put on us that new ones do nothing. They can even completely destroy a person and their desires/passions.
So don’t put expectations on people but be encouraging instead. Tell someone they are capable. Don’t doubt them, they probably already doubt themselves a shitton already. It leads nowhere. When you doubt someone, it just means you think that if you were in that other persons shoes you believe you yourself couldn’t achieve what that other person is setting out to achieve. Let others dream big. If you’ve given up on your big dreams, stop being a Negative Nancy or Debbie Downer, be Positive Pete instead (sexism not intented, those just happen to be the names of imagary persons we’ve invented) and don’t bring others down. What good does it do? People already have enough fears, insecurities that they don’t need new ones.